i've decided not to chase him.

there were things he told me he looked for in a girl.

but if i changed myself to suit that, who will i be? definately not me.

what will i become? fake.

instead, i'm going to walk the road i'm walking on, focused only on one thing.

GOD, His love, His perfect will.

everything else is secondary.

comments:

anGe on 21 september 2005 at 13.20
hmmm *sigh! Just when I was getting excited for you....
you can have lists but they don't really determine if you're willing to love and commit to ther other person.
Besides, guys like to do the chasing. Us women should just wait around and look pretty as they hunt and catch their prey! hahaha
Be in a place where you're not too open and not too closed ... like don't desparately seek or chase a dude ...... but then again, don't stay still and expect God to serve the guy on a silver platter to you .. if that makes sense ... BALANCE ....all about balance!
You'll be right!

G on 21 september 2005 at 14.10
Heh, true that guys like to chase, even though most of the time, he's seen a mile away so it's more of a carefully scripted play... pity the guy's not seen it :P
It's true that somethings shouldn't chase, but there should be a level of compromise existing between two ppl. Just as we're always changing, evolving and growing as people(and christians), growing stagnant using the excuse of "being yourself" isn't the best of options.
Of course, maybe that's WHILE you're dating and not just to try to look attractive enough to get picked up. But my $0.02 :)

me on 22 september 2005 at 10.11
i still like him and all and it's pretty hard not to 'chase' him. remember i said i had second thoughts? i still do like him, tho...you still can be excited, ange.

nate on 23 september 2005 at 10.47
What! I read this post before, but now it occurs to me... Deb!! I think you have some stuff to share @ our next gathering!! :P
You COC'ers are BGR-weird :S